To me dysphoria is like that bully you have to deal with everyday and when you try to tell someone about it the only advice you get is “stop being bullied”
do you know any good queer writing orientated blogs or websites?
AnonymousHmmmmm, no I don’t, I’m sorry.
Anyone else know??????????
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Moving between genders is genderfluid. Bigender is being male and female at the same time. Why can people never get it right?
AnonymousWell sometimes people experience a gender identity that is hard to fit into a category and so they choose the best word and identify as that, which is fine. And not everyone knows. No matter what, we were all ignorant at some point. Not like bad ignorant, we just didn’t know. But yeah there are people who are just fucks and think they know what they are talking about (not referring to the anon, don’t worry!) And don’t care that they might be wrong. But you know, in the end, it’s just another label we make to fit who we are. At the end of the day we are all people, and that’s all that really matters.
I'm sorry,i hope i didn't sound too picky or what have you.
AnonymousAwww not at all sweetie! Don’t be sorry! It’s all just a matter of how you want to define yourself, and there is nothing wrong with that
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Some bigender people feel they are male and female at the same time and some feel they go between the two at different times/.
AnonymousI guess it is just kind of how you want to define yourself as long as it fits. I don’t always know the specifics because I cannot experience all the different kind of gender identities but I hope I can be pretty accurate, thanks!
Hi! I'd hate to correct you, but bigender is when you go between male and female. The term for being both genders at once is pangender.
AnonymousOhhh, I thought pangendered meant you are everything. *shrug* Thanks for the correction though! And there ya go anon~
I am confused. What's the difference between bigender and genderfluid?
AnonymousBigender is when someone is two genders (like boy and girl) at the same time. Genderfluid is when someone switches between genders (NOT NECESSARILY JUST TWO) but does not identify as being both or all at the same given time. :)
Would you ever consider using the term "freemartin" for female-leaning genderfluid people?
AnonymousPersonally, no I wouldn’t :P Doesn’t it mean an infertile animal? (Sorry if i am ignorant of another meaning) I wouldn’t use it just because it indicates something that is negative for a lot of people (infertility). But that’s me.
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DID anon is back! The reason I asked the question was that I realized it was appropriative to claim an identity that we're not, and I wondered if that was acceptable. At all. However, I (one of the most active alters) am genderqueer. So it's technically not a lie if *I* say it. :S
AnonymousHey there again! Didn’t know about that tidbit. :) Even so, if you otherwise want to say something, it could be appropriate to say genderfluid. Sometimes this, sometimes that kind of thing :)))
